There’s plenty of analogies to why you need a political divorce consultant throughout my website and you’ll see plenty more in this blog.
In a nutshell, divorce is terrible. You deserve to be happy, and eventually in a happy marriage.
To get on your path to happiness, you need to get the divorce over in a fast and effective manner that allows you to live your life, keep your money, raise your kids with your values and be a happy, productive member of society.
You want to avoid filing bankruptcy and being the guy at the end of the bar miserable for the last remaining years you’ve got left while she’s off with a new tit job traveling the world with some guy treating her like a great piece of ass who has yet to see her other side.
So maybe you should be dating her friends, or maybe you should talk to me about a strategy that gets you out of hell and on a path towards heaven in this lifetime.
It’s not just a financial or spiritual journey. It’s a time to identify your needs, the needs of your family and how to make sound decisions while you’re going through a tumultuous and emotional situation.
Emotions will run high. Even the most experienced politicians allow emotions to overshadow their stoic personalities on the wrong days.
Just ask President George Allen. Oh, that’s right, he said the wrong thing on the campaign trail in 2006 while running for the U.S. Senate. Pundits thought he’d be a shoo-in for the White House in 2008, but his famous Macaca video ended his political career in one fell swoop and made YouTube a household name.
The same thing can happen to you as a citizen and a father when the wife’s attorney puts you through the ringer and gets you to do something stupid that impacts your family law case.
Wining in family court can be as important as scripting photo opps in politics.
You won’t recognize me from old media appearances. I’m not as recognizable as Karl Rove, but you can be assured I’ll be as effective as Robert DeNiro in the movie Wag the Dog or Dylan McDermott was in the Will Ferrell movie The Campaign.
Courts are showbusiness for lawyers, run by men and women who played politics to get their jobs, but Family Court is vicious.
You must set the narrative and make sure the judge agrees with your perspective before he decides to accept the narrative sold to him by your wife’s attorney and then you’re just one bad dude standing in front of a judge who has the power to ruin your life.
You need a great lawyer to win the legal arguments, but you’ll need a political divorce consultant to prepare you for what the opposition will throw at you and how you’ll counter their moves.
Lawyers react. Political consultants plan the work and work the plan—it’s called strategy.
When you have something to lose—your kids, your money, your favorite baseball card, or your boat—you can’t leave it to chance.
You should not expect the judge to care and you can be assured your wife’s attorney will do everything in his power to take everything from you he can, even if the law forbids it.
If he can’t get those items, her lawyer will find a way to make you liquidate the boat and baseball card collection to pay him for the pleasure of torturing you.
Are you willing to also let him use your kids as pawns?
What are you going to do when he implements page 7 from his playbook?
How about on page 9 when you’re accused of domestic violence and sexual battery?
Yes, the judge will likely allow him to do it anyways. It happens all the time. Ask anyone who ever experienced a contentious divorce.
Your wife’s attorney has mastered these five skills and that’s why she’s hired him:
- Bully the husband and make him look like a bad guy in court even though he’s known publicly as a saint.
- Get the court to trample on your civil rights with little recourse at your sole expense.
- Get the court to make public findings that you may be unfit, and it somehow gets used against you in other areas of your life causing public embarrassment and financial ruin.
- Make the husband pay for it all, and
- Afte the divorce is over, put the former husband in his place so he always does as he’s told by the former wife since he can’t afford the next round of litigation even if she’s being completely unreasonable.
There are many family lawyers prepared to represent husbands and fathers who are prepared to help you overcome this assault and don’t limit yourself to only hiring male attorneys. Some female attorneys despise the discrimination too.
Sometimes they’ll even delivery a victory for you, but it will be a pyrrhic one because you’ll have spend a large fortune, be completely stressed out and still have been forced to pay for most of it along with having made concessions to your now ex-wife you could have never imagined. Women will find you terrible to date and your friends will find your stories too depressing to pay attention to.
The cards are stacked against men in family court.
I hope it never happens to you like it’s happened to millions of other men in America who are still paying alimony more than twenty, thirty or forty years later and lost their ability to raise their children.
Now they don’t even hear from the kids on holidays.
I hope you don’t end up like me. In 2013, I was forced to pay nearly double the legal requirement for child support before I won my appeal two years later and then I had to pay the lawyer to litigate the resolution. I basically paid to lose twice but on principle, I fought for my rights and made case law in Florida that helps others because the judge will never care if they get it wrong.
Judges will get paid either way and there is little recourse for exposing their bad actions.
More importantly, watch the movies I referenced above and see what happens when people don’t listen to experienced consultants. Good advice that helps you plan the proper strategy is worth everything.
As your political divorce consultant, you’ll benefit from my personal experiences in life, business, the battles I’ve participated in politics at the highest levels, and the more than 12 years I’ve survived in the Divorce Industrial Complex that can help you stop being her punching bag.
I’m not guaranteeing you will win every fight, but I’m confident I help you tip the outcome in your favor with a good strategy.
